I need some advice and light shed!
Im 27 and live in London, Ok so, Ive known this guy for 4 years, hes in his mid 30s, and live in New York. I met him over there 4 years ago. We would chat on the net quite often,sometimes for a few hours day after day! 6/7 months after we met he was here in UK with his friends on business , we met up one eve had drinks, met his friends, that was it. Then a few days later I met him again, we ended up sleeping together (as I thought it was more than that).
After, he went back to NY and he was still txting me for weeks and weeks... telling me he missed me etc even after a few months. He even offered me to stay at his for a week or so! But I couldnt make it!
I ended up in NY with a friend, i dont know why i didnt tell him but i didnt, and he found out! a few wks later he was furious that I didnt ask him to meet up! I appologised and we still carried on chatting. We would speak on skype, FB etc sometimes he would send me a pic etc
Messages started to die down etc. I stopped txting him for a year or so, as I met someone, and he would still txt me when he was here in UK but I just said I couldnt meet him.
Now, a few wks ago he was here, and I txt him asking if he was available to meet? He seemed quite excited that id asked him for a drink!
He was txting me non stop, asking me to see him and hang out! I couldnt go because I had other priorities. He asked me if I was still single etc,
I made it clear Im not a booty call as my friends thought i may have been seen that way! He said he didnt see me like that and that he wanted to see me to establish if we still had chemistry!
So i said id see him next time he was over! He tried to see me the day before he left but I was busy. And when I last tried to speak to him on FB the conversation was all one sided!
So i guess im asking what you think? am I a booty call? I thought as he asked me to go over there there was the prospect of something more?
please tell me what you think?
Thankyou
Jessica