Hey all...
I'd like to start by apologizing for the length of this post but thanking you if you read through it all...
I really didn't ever see this day coming (no pun intended!). I feel it's taken some guts for me to post this as a guy!
I've slept with 7 women, and never had any trouble pleasing the previous 6. In fact the compliments I've received are really quite flattering. I have found the love of my life...and I am planning to propose on Christmas Day! We love each other deeply, and pretty much since we met have felt agreed on wanting to get married and spending our lives together. Everything is pretty much perfect, no relationship I've been in compares! It's like it's 'meant to be', if there is such a thing.
There's only one area I'm struggling with...
When it comes to sex, I have always enjoyed vocal partners, and I have good stamina which has helped when some girls can take a fair bit longer than others! My girlfriend is very quiet in bed... i can deal with that however... I can tell when she likes something, problem is, doesn't matter how much I do it, how much I mix it up, how long i go for, how quick i am, how horny i am, how loud i am, how quiet i am... i just cant seem to make her go.
She says she loves the sex, she really enjoys it...I should mention at this point she's a virgin, so it's not like she has anything to compare to. Thankfully I have received plenty of compliments in the bedroom to know I am OK in this area. Anyway... I don't know what to do, I just wonder if it's a matter of time and her getting more comfortable and used to it all. She said she's never had an orgasm.
I love this girl to bits, and it really bothers me I can't seem to ring her bell! I've tried the slow to the fast, the caressing and caring to the rough and ready... i don't need to go into too much detail...
I've tried talking to her and telling her it's ok to express herself and do whatever she likes, just go with the flow and enjoy herself, let it all out! She said to me she never gets really excited about anything though and maybe that's part of it.
She's not the kind of girl who gets horny and tells me she wants me. Hey you know what, maybe she isn't attracted to me?
Maybe she loves me to death...but doesnt find me attractive, and therefore no matter what i do....it doesnt work for her?
I think twice she has said I'm good looking but not direct compliment... not getting compliments is also something new to me, but totally fine, doesnt bother me.
I just dont know what to think....and this is really important to me! I never thought I would have this kind of 'problem'!
help? ...can anyone even relate to this?