Hi all...I am new to this forum and I would like to get to know some people here.
I have a sticky situation and I would really like some advice on it.
ok..there's this guy at work i really really like Adam ( been about 4 months since it started ) thing is he is really good friends with my mate Jim ( who also works there ) Jim has liked me for years and years and i don't feel that way about him at all, but he doesn't seem to get over it, Thing is I sometimes think that Adam likes me back but I can never find out because if Jim ever found out i don't know how he would react. So I think the only thing I can do is not say anything right. I mean sometimes when I try not talking to Adam for a few days he messages me on the computer and asks why I am not talking to him and if he's upset me..I know I shouldn't tell Adam how I feel. But I think sometimes that I should and too hell with what Jim thinks, it's not my fault that he doesn't get over it. Right am I right not saying anything...or should i...i just don't wanna do anything to ruin there friendship...But I really like Adam and if there's a chance he likes me back shouldn't I take the chance?.
What do you think I should do?.. I know staying quiet is the right thing to do but I need a level headed opinion on what other people think