Yes, bad move indeed. There is a girl in one of my classes. I am attracted to her because she is very creative and different. I didn't even realize it at first. It was only a week ago when I couldn't sleep, that I realized I liked her. I started having obsessed thoughts about her and asking her out.
I added her on a social network instead of talking to her, because I am very shy. We messaged back and forth for a while, I asked her if she wanted to instant message instead, and she said no because she doesn't like AIM that much. I sent her another message, trying to continue the 'conversation', but she hasn't responded for a week. I think she is ignoring me because she has been on once or twice since then.
In the class she looks at me sometimes. I think that if she was ignoring me, she wouldn't even look at me. Infact that's why I felt like I had a chance in the first place; because she looked at me quite often. So anyway, I had the opportunity to say hi a few times, but I didn't.
I'm going to say hi if I get another chance though. I've been considering sending her one more message admitting that I'm shy towards people I don't know very well and that it was a bit weird what I did, saying that I hope that there is a chance for friendship despite. But I don't want to sound like I've gone off the deep end, or like I am a stalker. I need some opinions before I do anything.