Ok i've had this question for awhile now, whenever i talk to my friends they say that they can tell when he's hard. But i never can. So my question is how can you tell that he's hard? I mean can you tell me the ways u can tell, and the ways to get him that way. I mean as of now we're not doing anything really physical but we are together and cuddling alot. As far as my other b/f's from the past i have been physical, and the only time i could tell is when it was right up in the face. lol. but anyways if ya could answer by uestions that would be wonderful. thanks again