Originally Posted by
Jumper_
Hi,
I really have no experience whatsoever when it comes to dating. In short: I suck at it. I love to see people having fun, I feel good when people are having a good time, i don't want to see people feel uncomfortable. Same applies to asking a girl out. I don't know why, but I just have in my head that when i ask them to see a movie or something I make them feel uncomfortable. And being pretty shy in these matters doesn't help at all either. I can talk to girls etc. It's just that final leap to ask a girl out on a date, or kissing a girl (I actually asked a girl if she wanted to kiss once, instead of taking the lead or whatever i don't know...)
So I met a girl a while ago on my sportsteam. We can really talk very nice, and i think she likes me. But I don't know if she has a boyfriend . I think there really is a connection. But I don't know what to do... just ask her out? What does she expect from me? We both like the same sports, same study and the same laid back lifestyle. But I'm really clueless... Help?
First things first, seriously, there is no need to ASK. You can SUGGEST.
"I am going to catch up with a movie tonight, I think it'd be fun if you come along" -- sounds more confident than " Will you go out for a movie tonight?". You get it, don't you?
You don't have to worry about her bf. It doesn't matter. Forge ahead and do what you want. If there is a connection, cement it. You won't know what to expect until you go out a couple of times with her. Being clueless is great, it will push you to learn.
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