OK, if you read my other thread, you found out that I asked out a VERY close friend and she said yes. We held hands the rest of the way home, but both of us like to take it slow, so we still haven't kissed. Today, however, she pulled me into a room and said we needed to 'talk'. I knew it was bad. She went on to say that she feels like she's not being fair to me. I asked her about what and she said that she wasn't sure she liked me the way I liked her. The thing is that just days ago, when I did ask her out, she told me that she had been thinking of me for about a month, (we worked together every day about a month prior) and that she had been waiting for me to ask. But now, she says that she's not sure??? WTF! She then went on to say that she was afraid that it would be weird when we kissed. Because we're such good friends. I know for a fact, however, that if you fall in love with a close friend, it is just that much better. Friends know you better than a random stranger you meet. I think she's just having a problem with the transition from friend to girlfriend. I finally talked her into giving this at least another week (Hell, we haven't even kissed yet. How does she know it'll be weird?). The thing is, that I think unless I can convince her otherwise, she is going to dump me after this week. Should I just pour out my heart to her and tell her how I feel? I really like her A LOT, and I just don't want to let her get away. She's one of the few girls that has ever made my stomach do somersaults and I just would die if she left me.
Please give me some advice on what to do. Does she like me? Is she just afraid of the unknown (what it will be like to be an actual girlfriend?)
Thank you.