Originally Posted by
Chris660
Met a great girl. best girl I have ever been in a relationship with. We have been together 10 months now. Things are awesome. Best sex, best personality match, we act the same, enjoy the same things....only 1 big difference we have is our beliefs on raising children.
I think children should be diciplined. she thinks children should be able to do whatever the hell they want and not have any consequences besides yelling at them....which does absolutely nothing at this point. The kid is almost 3 years old but he is a total nightmare. Throws things all over the place, runs around and breaks things, runs away from us if we go out somewhere, literally hits my g/f for no reason, bites her.
we talked about this key difference, a lot recently, but it seems like her answer always is "he's my son and I pay for him and take care of him so I don't need you to tell me how to raise my kid" I keep telling her unless you do something, this behavior will get worse and worse and continue forever....she says it's just how a normal 3 year old acts and he will get better as he ages.
I don't agree...and it seems to be putting a strain on our relationship. anyone ever been in a situation like this and how did you handle it?