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    did i come off as clingy

    this is texts i sent after a call

    me: please answer
    her: i have nothing to say to you
    me: come on
    me:answer the phone kelly
    me: damnit come on
    me: im not even that mad
    her: you are annoying me
    me: because you wnt answer
    her: i blocked your number
    me: why? im done calling
    her: have fun at work
    me: ill stop by tonight and we can talk this out
    her: maybe
    me: if you care as much as you say, you would

    (few hours later)
    me: soooo you still hate me?
    ( no reply)

    11 ish
    me: ill be by 1130
    her: im in bed night
    me: im over earlier
    her: ok thats good for you
    me: sooo?


    today
    me: i work tonight come over tommorow?
    her: proabably not i have my cousin coming
    me: ok, well when e gonna talk this out
    her: i dont know

    few hours later

    me: listen im sorry about yesterday. i got upset and said things i shouldnt have. im sorry
    me: ignoring me wont help the problem ok?
    her: im busy
    me: ill just see ya wednesday


    did i come off as clingy?

    im teh type of perosn that wants to squash the problem right away

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    No, you don't sound clingy - you sound desperate. What's the current status of the relationship? What were you fighting over and what did you say to her?
    Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.

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    Unless you have had a long term thing going on, this girl is done with you. How long you been seeing each other?

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    Quote Originally Posted by surfhb2 View Post
    Unless you have had a long term thing going on, this girl is done with you. How long you been seeing each other?
    Imagine if this is what their usual fighting style looks like!
    Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.

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    You lacked some selfesteem and positive thinking in those messages. Also you put in way more effort than she did. If you would assume that she likes instead of asking so many questions, it could end better. Also you apologised for little things, basicaly you loss some respect while being apologetic.

    Next time just breath deep and think positive, imagine that she likes you. Also respect yourself. Imagine if you would answer the same way she did.
    Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will

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    You need to tell us more about your relationship

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