I will meet with him for dinner tonight. However , I am sitting in a coffee shop thinking should I tell him that I want to be friends right now?
Some Facts:
1. I am 35, no kids. He is 45 with 2 young kids, 4 and 7.
2. I met him about half month ago online. We were very happy we found each other at first. We have great communication. He is very intelligent, I like that a lot. He speaks 2 languages, have lived in these 2 countries. So do I.
3. He told me a lot of his past. He still loves 2 women from his past. He wouldn't hang up on either of them. It bothers me.
4. I am not sure how well I will interact with his kids. I've never met them yet.
5. He has limited time for me. Tonight will be the only time he sees me this week.
6. He had a lot of sexual encounter in the past, It is Ok, so did I. However, i suspect he will not be able to fall in love again.
It is a young relationship, I should feel happy but I feel heavy now. I don't know how to love a guy who loves 2 women from his past. Only because they left him, I was trying to tell him that his feeling toward them is not love any more. They don't love him just have power over him. He was offended by my comments.
I want to end the relationship, but I also think it might be too early to call it off. But I feel very annoyed when thinking about his obsession to these 2 women, and I have no experience with kids, it causes a lot of anxiety too.
Please tell me what to do.