Loooooonggg story short: 2-3 year relationship ended. Her reason was that she didn't have feelings and that they faded. I asked why and what happened. She said "I don't know and it wasn't anything you did"
We're eachothers first love and im 21 shes 24. She went back to school for a nother degree and I started the nursing program in my school.
She did make it clear that it was for the best and she changed the facebook picture, desktop background etc. But she has not deleted any of the pictures, still has my teddy bear on her bed, still has the 12pg note that I wrote to her and the picture I put in it. She said the note was very sweet and the picture and writing was perfect.
I asked "if you somehow magically get your feelings back and wake up for this dream, will you chase me" and She said "i would say so, yes"
I never begged her back, we never argued or cussed at eachother.
She says she misses the nice things I do but it wouldn't be fair if she didn't have the feelings
She keeps saying she's worried bout school and it sucks that she has to go back for a new degree. I always supported her.
Last night I told her that I would give her space blah blah blah no contact. This morning she sends a txt message saying "gmornin and that ty for those txt messages, have a good day"
I didn't text her all day and now she texted me "hey, i'm home"
I'm confused as sh*t as of what to do. I want her back but there's times where she makes seem like she just wanna be over friendly n theres times where she says little things that give me hope.
I said I hope that when I give you space that no other guy would sneak in and replace me. She said no one will sneak in and i feel like i never meet anyone"
I also said "i hope that when you wake up from this dream I'll find you at my door crying saying you miss me and wanna give me a hug and a kiss" then I added "that would be soooo coool and just like a movie" and she said "Siiiiiii" which is yesssssss but in spanish....(She's white and I'm spanish)
Help, suggestions, comments, anything please! Thank you!
It's been officially one day and last night I get 3 text messages from her. (I wrote an indirect facebook message to her before i started NC)
1. Tyy for facebook msg, i hope u had a good day too. im not trying to confuse u. Sent at 19:24
2. I'm just being nice. I understand if u dont want me around tho. N i know u dont want to hear it but idk wat to sayy. Have a g'nite. Sent at 20:50
3. I dont think ure a bad person i know what ure trying to do n im sry i cant give u the answers u want i am i nvr wanted to cause u ne pain. Sent at 20:57
4. Not that i wouldnt b nice or that i want u to not talk to me. Sent at 22:44
This was all after she said she her msg in the morning would be her last txt msg and that i would have to txt next. I did send a message after she said that and that was when i started NC.
I see a little hope. But I just hope that I'm not blinding myself from reality. Nothing has been said today and I know shes at work by herself.
I have yet to say anything to her. Hopefully this is the healing process/mending the relationship. 2-3 years and we never went 1 full day without saying g'morning/g'nite...hope this eats her up and eventually she cracks open to realize what's truely there.
Day 2 NC begins....