Hello everyone..I'm new here
I basically joined as I have the following problem and would like some advice as it's confusing me a bit.
I've recently met a really nice girl,we've known each other since Jan 2011.We see and stay with each other regulary and things seem to be going well.
The problem is last year she broke up with and had her heart broken(her words) by her ex boyfriend.
He is Turkish (we are in UK) and the most dissapointing thing for her was that he ended their friendship too as he had met someone else and apparently this new girl wouldnt let him keep contact with my girlfriend (his ex).A few months ago he broke up with this new girl and his family contacted my girlfriend to say they were worried about him and could my girlfriend talk to him.
They treat her like family.So needless to say my girlfriend is now back best friends with him and was even planning to go to Turkey to see him as she tells me shes misses him so much but has no intentions of getting back with him,they are just friends.hmmmmmm....
Obviously I have been a bit unhapy about this,at first I told her my objections,but it just made us argue and now I say it's fine,what business is it of mine....through clenched teeth...
In the last few days she has told me:
She is not in love with me but is happy to have me.
She is still heartbroken from her ex and sad but is happy to have me...
And she has never told her ex about me...
The fact she wont tell him about me is the worst thing...like I dont excist...
I'm sure he has every intention of getting her back....
I think my girlfriend is being realy unreasonable to me...and shes lucky I stay around for now...
When I mention it she always clamps up and accuses me of being jealous...
Has anyone got any advice?
Thanks in advance