hi i am 27 yrs old guy..I dont know but i am in desperate need of advice..i met this girl in my office 6 months back..since than i went for her..i propose her and she agreed...everything was so nice and cool..we had a wonderful first two months..i send my proposal to her home which was almost accepted..(which she later rejected because she wants to be settle abbroad and i have my family ties in my home country so i cant move there)
I make money which is good for enough living but the girl told me that she is looking for some extra rich guy..need bigger car..buy her gold jewelry and stuff..i usually spend double of my income on her for whole last six months..i try to fullfil everything she say..pick her daily from home to office--office to home..lunch and dineouts daily, yes daily for last 6 months..shoppings..taking care of her everyday needs etc..still she asks for too much..like more expensive gifts and do more-- do more like things..compare me with her ex's that they use to do alot and i am nothing infront of them etc
i felt like i met my love of life..so i spend like crazy on this girl..i started living for this girl.wakeup on her command and sleeps on her command..do my everyday task on her command..ignored my job and work..ignored my family..i ignored even living..i sware i did..
i become so possesive for her that i just want to spend every second of my life with her as i never get enough of her..she had a friends circle ( including two guys (one who is marriad) who do flirt to her which i found out many times in her inbox..i ask her to leave those friends which she dis-agreed.and said to me that i doubt on her..everytime she fights with me..she go out with her friends circle..which i hate..many times i found her cell busy at nights..when i ask who you talking to..she say i doubt and i am sick minded and negative sort of person
last week she said she have to go to her friends gathering at night..including that marriad guy who do flirt with her all the times.i said no i dont like them so dont go..instead make some new good friends and hang out with them..these so called friends just use you as a show peace and nothing else...she went to see them by telling me that they r more important than me...than she is also flirting with a guy in her university as well..which i just get to know ( although i talked to the guy and he told me that she appriciated his advancement)..
meanwhile she looks for other proposals as well all the times and i feel like i am just a last option for her..she says that she can do anything when she is angry..that is her justification..she calls me a lier..she disrespects me and my family very much..she dont give a fu*k about me or my feelings..no matter what i do for her..she always say me what you did..even though its me who calls all the time..its me who pays all the time..its me who cares all the times..etc etc..
an other example is she asked me to buy her a laptop which i didnot, so she asked some other guy to bought her the laptop(although she can afford it herself and i didnot wanted to be like that but i just wanted to see if i dont buy her a laptop what will she do, and what she did is made her image as a user **** hooker infront of me)
i know i may be sound very stupid that why the hell i m sticking with her and i should move on in my life....she always say me that move on and leave me..she dont give a damn..the problem is i feel myself very helpless infront of her..i am just unable to let her go..i m so deeply involve that if she talk to other guys i feel like dieing..
i need a way out..if she dont love me and just taking me as granted..how can i get out of her..i seriously dont want to loose her..but now i have to make a choice..
A how can i make her realize that she needs to love me if i love her
B i need to move on and tell her dat FU*K off which she will accept in less than a minute and i will go in deep depression phase..
in either case.. i need to know HOW I WILL BE ABLE TO DO IT..