bad stuff happens.

[Love'sReject]

So here's another question:

Why does most of dating consist of being really stupid? I mean, most girls and guys want a "challenge" and so skip a good person for something that is needlessly difficult. It's analogous to cutting off your arm to try to play baseball, just because that would be harder. I mean, most of life is extremely hard and challenging; one would think dating and relationships would be kinda therapeutic and would desirably be easier to get, rather than tacking on more challenge and complications.

Is it because most of 'Murrican lives are so vacuous? we need to keep our dull, routine lives interesting by making things harder than they should be? I mean, this is where games come from, right? And every girl plays games, as we know: I figure it must be a self-defense mechanism. Apparently, a guy can't be too eager or like her too much, otherwise she drops him for someone who causes her to be plagued with self-doubt and esteem issues...What's with the self-flagellation in dating? Chriiiiist...

[HeartIsAching]

And every girl plays games, as we know: I figure it must be a self-defense mechanism.

...I'm done. Figure it out on your own, Cupcake.

[Love'sReject]

I'm just bored until I get this makeover, which can only be done once I can afford it...In the meantime, I'm still kinda flustered.

[Immaisback]

Makeover? wtf. Becoming a faggot wont help you get a bird. **** sake.

[Love'sReject]

Makeover? wtf. Becoming a faggot wont help you get a bird. **** sake.

Yup, it sure will. And friends.

[IndiReloaded]

Imma Dead Again? Awww.

[Love'sReject]

Yep, he is deader than Yakov Smirnov jokes...

[basilandthyme]

So here's another question:

Why does most of dating consist of being really stupid? I mean, most girls and guys want a "challenge" and so skip a good person for something that is needlessly difficult. It's analogous to cutting off your arm to try to play baseball, just because that would be harder.

If that's true, explain why my hubby stayed with me -and me with him- even though we shagged each other stupid on the night of the day we met....

And I'm far from the only woman I know who's married a guy she slept with very early on. One of my friends had to ask her now husband what his name was on the morning after the night they met.

[Love'sReject]

That's so incredibly rare. Basically, the statistically very unlikely same night sex, if it leads to other dates, it's pretty fair to assume it'll lead to marriage. When something rare of that caliber happens, it's something special.

[IndiReloaded]

If that's true, explain why my hubby stayed with me -and me with him- even though we shagged each other stupid on the night of the day we met....

Current H or ex? Your ex relationship was severely issued.

[basilandthyme]

Current H or ex? Your ex relationship was severely issued.

Current husband.

[HeartIsAching]

Current H or ex? Your ex relationship was severely issued.

I don't get it... how was that issued?

They boinked on their first date, and have been together ever since.

Or are you referencing something else she's said?

[vashti]

Imma Dead Again? Awww.

I wish I knew who is responsible. >

[IndiReloaded]

Or are you referencing something else she's said?

The meds thread. Suicidal ex, codependent, the whole gig.

[IndiReloaded]

I wish I knew who is responsible. >

Cerby, my neighbour.