I dated my ex for almost seven years. First loves, first real relationship, etc. Really was going to marry her.
In the beginning of January she broke up with me sort of out of the blue. SHe said that she did not have feelings anymore and that I did not make her feel special.
Now, she had a lot of family issues that affected us, and we almost broke up back in August, but she said she made a mistake. In November she said how she never felt closer to me, etc. as I really put a lot of effort into being more romantic and open.
The reasons that she broke up with me are kind of conflicting, as I took her out for a special bday gift/trip to the city, got an expensive dinner and show, yet she says that she was not "special" to me.
A week after she broke up with me she started to go on dates with this kid who always tried to come between us. Within a month they are official. She says she never has been happier and they say love you to each other already.
Not trying to be stuck up, but this guy is totally opposite: he is overweight, has no education past HS and literally flips burgers as his profession. He and his family have had history of drug problems and pregnancies, and he has told her lies in the past.
She has started to lose her friends since she has not really been in contact with them, and has started trouble on facebook.
So my questions are: is this a rebound/GIGS? What can I do? If she is really so happy why does she post stuff like that on FB and start trouble and ultimately lose her friends?