The key here is communication.
*Can I get him to take me serious?
Yes, if you tell him clearly what you want. At least you can try.
What if I gave the impression I was just looking to hook up?
If you want more, tell him exactly what you want. Do you want to date him exclusively? Or do you want to date him and other people? Just be honest with yourself about what you want, and tell him. Then if your mind changes, TELL HIM right away.
I'm really interested in him and wish I would have paid attention to him from the start.
So, pay more attention to him now.
*Is it too late because I gave it up already?
No. TALK TO HIM.
*Should I wait a bit then ask him to come or go see him?
No, if you wait, it will confirm that you just wanted to hook up. ACT LIKE you want more, by going to see him, and by telling him you want more.
Why is it so hard for people just to say what they want? I've had sex a few times on the first date, and they turned into WONDERFUL relationships, because I told them that I wanted more of a relationship. Communication=happiness.
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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