Well, This is my first thread and I'm starting with stating that I just walked out on a guy I've been seeing for a couple months.
I can't believe I'm here, behind my computer, at 2am, joining a Love forum and talking about this. But I just feel like writing. I would've never though that I'd be able to do it. Never. I'm not that strong.
It's me, who recently turned 30, who went nuts maybe....I just walked out on a perfectly good guy who just burns a fuze whenever for whatever...I can't even have a hint of what's going on in his head sometimes and pow! There he goes again. So I walked.
I was in a 6 years relationship 5 months ago. I left him, for lack of passion and basically cause I didn't know what I wanted anymore or who I was. I had let myself become...him. His interests, his friends, his family...and I loved it too. Until I realized I didn't know anymore what I wanted for myself. So I left.
And met T.
T is the perfect balance for me. We really are a team, he made me realize how alone I was in my previous relationship. Evolving with someone else makes us realise a lot of things sometimes. Anyhow, I was happy to have met someone like him. As passionnate as me in ways I never found anywhere else. At first, we were just friends, than a little more, than a couple. This is where everything changed, aint that crazy ! Before being an official couple, all was fine. We were tender and sweet and falling in love. Now we're ...strange I guess... and I know im a big part of this, I became a little obsessed cause I had feelings and then, was afraid to get hurt or left behind at some point.
But whenever I try to talk about it with him, he gets mad, a fuze pops and he doesn't understand anything anymore...he says so himself, although not admitting (or not even realizing) he gets explosif without warning.
And I don't know how to deal with that ... Seriously. I can talk about anything, ANYTHING! I'll have opinions but I'll never judge. I believe we can talk ourselves out of any feud with our partner. Come on! It's only logic!
Anyway...what do you do when the other one doesn't see his side, never! I will admit all my faults and understand the other's point of view but never will he. How is that possible ? How sad actually....
So because of that, I walked out. Because of another ridiculous fight on a ridiculous misinterpretation...I left. You have to understand I don't do fights. I talk. I don't up my voice and scream. He said if I left, hed pack my stuff and come by to pick his at my place tomorrow. I still left. Is it that I don't care ? I think im just tired. This is draining me...He yelled at me to come back, I walked. He messaged me on my cell, I hailed a cab.....Now he's just texting me again...I keep my fingers busy my continuing to type here.
There's no direct question here I think...just a million, all around...