Perfect relationship with a girl for 2 years. She turned 19 and suddenly became obsessed with going to bars and drinking.
She dresses different now. acts different. and is most likely sleeping around. (she was never like this).
She basically just stopped talking to me completely out of nowhere with no warning while things were going great with us.
I've talked to her a few times but she just isnt the same.. shes so wrapped up with going to bars and partying.
I don't know what to do... part of me wants to stick around as a friend for her during this stage.. another part wants to tell her how worried i am about her and the decisions shes making, and another part wants to just stop talking to her completely.
It's just so hard seeing someone you care about making horrible choices for themselves.. she used to have goals and dreams and now it just seems to be bars bars bars....
I am moving on regardless but i still genuinely care for her and cant bear to see her do this to herself.
What are your guys experience with this?
do they grow out of it?
do they regret it?
how long does this stage last..?