Having a lesiurely conversation today with some co workers and I found that 4 out of 5 of us were divorced. We all married for the wrong reasons & now find ourselves divorced before 40. Only 1 of us are now remarried. This is very scary to me. After my 16 month marriage I just came to realize that I too married for the wrong reasons. And now after being divorced for 6 months I can finally say it someone else besides myself that I Married For the Wrong Reasons & literally screwed up. Now I understand why so many marraiges end in divorce. People are not marrying for the right reasons any more. Lets face it no one wants to be alone for the rest of their lives but at the same time settling for someone that you are not truly in love with is still being lonely as well. Just needed to put that out there.