So this may sound stupid .. but I bet if you ask Squirt ...she may agree. I was in an abusinve relationship for years. My mom too... and I know that she stays with he because he's "safe" .. . I dont mean like safe he wont hurt her.. I mean safe like she already knows what to expect. The thing about new relationships for people that get out of bad ones like that... is that we are so vunerable without really knowing just how much until we start a new relationship. It gets scary and we get insecure so we go back to what we are "used too". Does that make sense?
"Remember always, that you not only have the right to be an individual, you have an obligation to be one."
- - Eleanor Roosevelt
" It's not who we are that holds us back, it's who we think we're not."
- - Michael Nolan
"...to love and lose, is better than not to love at all..." .... Lord, whats his name....
" The world is big... I want to see all of it before it gets dark." -- John Muir