Afraid he could publish nude photos

[Nic78]

My bf cheated on me many times. he is a jerk. A few month ago I was afraid to break up because he got videos and photos we took a year ago (nude). Then I went to a company called procomb and told him if he would publish my photos I will sue the hell out of him. I told him about the company and that they comb the web for my face.
Until today he didn´t dare to publish anything but its like a time bomb. I can not afford to have nude pics online.

[Only-virgins]

So wtf do you want us to do with your paranoia? This is what you women get for being so attached to the camera lense and for being such attention whores.

[Gigabitch]

Sorry, but you gave up your right to never have anyone see nude photos of you when you took nude photos. You don't really have a leg to stand on, here.

Why do people do this to themselves? Your boyfriend gets to see you nude in person- that should be the end of the story. Why take photos?

[Tiay]

Your boyfriend gets to see you nude in person- that should be the end of the story. Why take photos?

how about if you don't get to actually see them naked for months at a time?
anyway, most couples have blackmail material on each other, be it photos or what she said about her mother/boss/coworker.

I don't understand, what do you want us to say? It seems like there's no way out of your situation. Your bf (ex?) is a jerk. You've obviously already researched services that comb the internet for your photos (and presumably remove them), what more do you need to hear? Unless you have access to his files so that you can delete the photos, there's nothing more to do to except to stop worrying about it. You will get no joy from worrying about that which you cannot change.

anyway, what kind of photos are these, and why can you simply not "afford" to have nude photos on the internet?

There are thousands and thousands of naked photos on the internet, yours would hardly be a drop in the ocean. Unless you have a giant klu klux klan tattoo on your ass, why can you not afford to have nude photos online? They're just boobs. We all have them.

[misombra]

how about if you don't get to actually see them naked for months at a time?
anyway, most couples have blackmail material on each other, be it photos or what she said about her mother/boss/coworker.

I don't understand, what do you want us to say? It seems like there's no way out of your situation. Your bf (ex?) is a jerk. You've obviously already researched services that comb the internet for your photos (and presumably remove them), what more do you need to hear? Unless you have access to his files so that you can delete the photos, there's nothing more to do to except to stop worrying about it. You will get no joy from worrying about that which you cannot change.

anyway, what kind of photos are these, and why can you simply not "afford" to have nude photos on the internet?

There are thousands and thousands of naked photos on the internet, yours would hardly be a drop in the ocean. Unless you have a giant klu klux klan tattoo on your ass, why can you not afford to have nude photos online? They're just boobs. We all have them.

totally off topic: your bolded statement really struck a chord with me. i think one of my resolutions for this year is too stop worrying about things. i'm always worried and i think it's killing me.

anyway, on topic: i agree with tiay. what's done is done. you can't go back. all you can do is learn from this. hopefully you learned from this...

[HandlewithCare]

There is nothing I can suggest to help with this situation as my hands are cut off.

But take this advice from personal experience, I don't know what your current relationship status is but if you meet someone new in future, please don't tell them your ex is running around with pics and vids of you naked (and possibly more). I had to hear this news from my ex girlfriend once and just the idea of knowing that some other guy could be watching the video or holding a pic of my girlfriend naked killed me. My mind later went out of control just by thinking about him inviting his friends to laugh about it...or even emailing it around.

I apologize as this information does not help you at all at this point and time, but please don't share this around. Forget about it and bury the whole episode away.

[Mathias]

So wtf do you want us to do with your paranoia? This is what you women get for being so attached to the camera lense and for being such attention whores.

Again, it's amazing you're single.

[Only-virgins]

Again, it's amazing you're single.

Did the truth offend you? I'm tired of women being whiny little bitches about their own choices they make. You took a bunch of nude pictures and if they get out prepare to face the embarrassing consequences.

[DoesntMatter]

They're just boobs. We all have them.

Speak for yourself

[Mathias]

Did the truth offend you? I'm tired of women being whiny little bitches about their own choices they make. You took a bunch of nude pictures and if they get out prepare to face the embarrassing consequences.

Oh dear God.

[Only-virgins]

Oh dear God.

No such thing as god.

[alidile]

oh my stars. well if you hadn't made such a big deal about the pics i bet they'd be less likely to ever surface. i did this photography shoot for some guy when i first turned 18 and it was SKETCH, the other chick who did it w/ me started making a huge deal about her pictures being released and i didn't say anything about it because i figured i was already screwed. she literally erased herself from life because the person was a prick and got a kick out of exposing pics of her. mine, haven't surfaced, yet and hopefully want, but you probably just stired sh*t up.

[Illusional]

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raverboy

[anachronistic]

My bf cheated on me many times. he is a jerk. A few month ago I was afraid to break up because he got videos and photos we took a year ago (nude). Then I went to a company called procomb and told him if he would publish my photos I will sue the hell out of him. I told him about the company and that they comb the web for my face.
Until today he didn´t dare to publish anything but its like a time bomb. I can not afford to have nude pics online.

Well, to put a little hope back in your life... do you think anyone really gives a shit? I mean, we're all a click away from porno, it's not going to make a difference... unless you were screwing your dog.

You could atleast appreciate that someone is wasting their time and money to scare the shit out of you. In the mean time, just forget about it. There's more to life.

[misombra]

the stupidity behind the nude pic situation pales in comparison to the stupidity behind dating such an asshole.

hopefully you didn't reproduce this person. that would be a lot more horrible than nude pictures of yourself.