Okay so my boyfriend and I of a year and a half broke up officially 2 months ago. The first year of our relationship seemed almost perfect. But by the end we were fighting so much that he chose to break up with me. I was getting jealous that he was spending a lot more time at work because of his recent job promotion. I understand now that I was being too clingy and always wanted him around.
He said he would really like the relationship to work, but he was at the ends of his rope and breaking up was the only way to see if the relationship could work again. He asked for space, and I tried to give it to him. But being desperate I would call him, text him, still talk to him at work and at times drive around to his friend's house to see if he was there.
Clearly I haven't been giving him his space. I got caught about 4-5 times driving at his friend's neighborhood. 3 of those times being this past weekend. I realize now that it's not going to get him back.
I wrote him a letter 2 nights ago, (he just read it yesterday) explaining how sorry I am and that I really need to work harder at accepting this break up and giving him space. I haven't heard from him yet (I don't expect to) and I have stopped driving around to his friend's house to see if he's there.
Even though I may have broken his trust completely this past weekend by getting caught trying to find him, if I stop it all and give him his space, what do you guys think is the likelihood of us getting back together? Remember, he did say that he really wanted to try to make the relationship work...
Thanks for taking the time to read my story and appreciate all the advice you all can offer.