Umm. I've got a problem. Not that big a problem, compared to some of the others here. Me and my gf haven't really had sex yet. But we have let our fingers roam around a little. You know what I mean. My problem is this: I can't seem to get her to orgasm. I've read about just what to do, relax, etc. Seems like she's about to, but then she says that that particular area is feeling kind of sore. I dunno. I think part of it is she's never had one before. Hasn't explored herself, or anything. So the old "get her to tell you what feels good" adage just doesn't apply. Does it? I guess what I'm asking is, what can I do?