I agree to some extent. I mean, i understand that things can get boring or stale or whatever but it doesn't mean you experience sex with others. I think that its openning a HUGE can of worms.
Why take the vows and still be having an affair? you both have the right to be happy. Why can't you bring the romance back? YOu have been married a long time. Personally, too long to start having sex with others and still be married.
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