maybe she doesnt have anybody else. I dont have anybody around me to share anything so if something really bad happens (and i was the one who got heart broken and lost my job at the same time), i might do so.
So u have 2 choices: you just leave her, be true with yourself that u dont care. Or u sympathy with her for having nobody else....and think if u're in her shoes etc.
Regardless, i dont really care actually. there is friend of friend who asked to borrow my money when i just lost my job. I muster the strength to lend her the money, wait until the time she promised to payback but nothing. I waited another half a month, nothing. I went to see her, she avoided me. I texted her to give me back, she texted me to give her time, i gave 1 week. Nearly 1 week from then and she texted me, told me she has no money, just lost her job and is looking for a shelter. Last paycheck is only 300$. I said i dont care. She had had her chance to come clean and told me she couldnt make it and asked for more time but instead, she chosed to ignore and avoid me. Why should i care? It's 100$ only!!
keep it simple
Self-esteem isn't bragging about how great you are. It's more like quietly knowing that you're worth a lot (priceless, in fact!). It's not about thinking you're perfect — because nobody is — but knowing that you're worthy of being loved and accepted.
"Me, I try to send this note
float it like a paper boat
But paper sinks
and words are weak
i try, but i cant speak"