Hey guys im new to the forum and I decided to post something here cause a friend reccomended it to me to help me out.
I am typing it on my andriod so please excuse my terrible punctuation and misspelled words.
Ok so here it is:
Well my Jounior year of school was doing well. Me and her were very strong. It was 10 months into our relationship. Anyways twoards the end of our
jounior college year she was worryed over out break time that i would see other girls and she got very scared. I admit almost all my friends are girls and thats why it scared her and i try to make it so shes very comfortable about it.
Anyways school got out may 21st and when we left i got the text that she was dumping me cause there was to much stress about it. I tryed to call her, text her, everything but she blocked me. So I remembered that i set up her ipod for her and she had a free texting app. So i decided to check out the app. And sure enough she sent messages too all her friends that she called it off. and her exucse was that i thought she was cheating on me? WHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAT????????????????????????????!!? !?!?! wherd the frick did that come from? anyways 3 days later i finally was able to get her on the phone and she cried and said sorry and she wanted me back. I didnt take her back yet cause I was Still angry. so we just talked all the time aagain for about 2 weeks. Its about june 10nth now. Then she sent me a text saying she was going on a religous trip. I said alright and understood she couldnt text me for a full week. She sent me all these texts and emails saying everything will be ok and we are strong and we can be a happy couple again. I was happy about that because She lived up to her mistakes and was truely sorry and I forgave her.
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here comes the WO part. After she got back from the trip.. nothing... no texts... no emails... I sent her stuff. no replys (BTW im not annoying i dont spamm the crap out of her phone or email) anyways idk what the heck was going on.
Finally 1 week of confusion i got a hold of her mom and she told me that we needed to split and her daughter agreed.
Im like what? she just said we were gonna date again and we could make it.
Anyways meanwhile ive been texting my best buddy and he felt bad for me. but get this. SHE WAS TEXTING HIM. anyways he said he was helping her thru the hardship of our breakup. meanwhile i was pretty hurt as well.
So still wondering ive been texting my friend how shes doing and all and it sounded like he took her to the movies>? And then he brought it it me.
He said that they liked eachother?
IM LIKE wowwww come on we dated strong for 10 months and 2 weeks after breakup she likes him? sounded like a rebound.But nope.
One week later he asked her out. and she said yes? im like WTF MAN your my best friend you dont do that thats against rules and bro code. hes like "idk i cant controll my feelings i like her"
I told him this \
"we can't help who we like... BUT we can make the choice not to act on those feelings"
hes like sorry man i like her
So i went to a movie with a girl and i saw them there today and they were all kissing and stuff and my friend or her must not care about my feelings.
im really really hurt.
I need you help to figure it out.
Was it wrong for him to do?
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