Originally Posted by
BrooklynRose80
I've been with my boyfriend since the beginning of the year..we would talk all the time and he did what he said he was going to do. But lately, he says he's going to call me before he goes to sleep and he doesn't...so far, he did it TWICE in one week. Once, he went to sleep near 6 and text me an "apology" near 10:30 that he was tired.
Yesterday he was doing yardwork the whole day and text me near 8 that he was done and would call me when he got out of the shower..never heard from him. I'd like to think there's another woman, but then, most nights he calls me consistantly.
He just seems inconsiderate and only calls me when it's convenient for HIM.
I've addressed the issue - but he says I'm not being "understanding" about how tired he is, and I get no where.
How can I take action against this? There are things happening in my life that I wind up needing to tell him at night and never get to because he's sleeping or doesn't bother calling (then he complains he's not part of my life).
Should I ignore his calls from now and on to prove he can't just call when he's got time? What do I do with this anger I have for his flimsy communication?