well let me start by saying that my girlfriend and I have been dating for quite some time now and have discussed marriage and children on several occasions and planing our future in general. Now here is the kicker, When I met her she told me she was a nanny for a high profile family and I believed it, she seemed to always have more money then I do which does not bother me but I make a good income of over 60k and after seeing her go on a shopping spree of buying more then 9k of electronics and paying cash for everything I began to question the fact of her employment. She told me flat out that she lied to me about being a nanny and is in fact a call girl in her local area, and after hearing this my first response was to leave. and I did....Now she is telling me she done with that life style choice and does not want to lose me. I am lost in limbo not knowing the appropriate chores of action here. she seems really sincere about her choice to leave everything behind and being with me. but my concern is she deceived me all this time what is going to stop her from doing it in the future. on the other hand she told me the truth about this and has never lied about anything else in the past....any advice would be great