Originally Posted by
basilandthyme
Axis, when one wants to get back with the ex, the first thing they must do is fix the underlying problem which caused the breakup in the first place. Unless the problem is fixed, the relationship will never last.
In your case, the problem which must be solved is distance. If you moved to where he is, would he reconsider? And if you're serious about getting him back, don't give me any excuses as to why you can't move. You need to show him that he's your #1 priority in life.
That being said, it's also entirely likely that he's found someone else. Doing the long distance thing leaves so many of a person's needs unmet. It wouldn't be at all surprising if he's found a local girl who fills all his needs.