but you need to put your emotions on hold and use your head
I wish I could cut and paste this on about 99% of the threads started in this forum.
Is their any females out their who have gone through this with their boyfriends and how long should I give her? Please help
How long you should give her for what? All the ebooks and advice and ideas in the world won't change what she said. "We are finished..."
I agree with cycletease on the fact that you need to ignore her and move on. I, however, would tell you to start learning what the words "finished" actually mean. Anytime a woman tells you that the relationship is over, you need to learn how to handle that. By ending it.
Is it easy? Hell no. But the more you pine and obsess over this girl and try so hard to "win her back", the more of a mess you will become. Her being attracted to other people translates into a few things:
1. She is already romantically/physically interested/involved in/with someone else.
2. You aren't "The One", and she wants to find him.
3. She feels like this relationship is going nowhere and wants to move on in her life.
4. The two of you have been pretty exclusive and she wants to try "new things" in life.
There is always more to it than "I am feeling attracted to others" at the end of a 4 year relationship. Im certian there is more to it than this.
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