because some of her friends who do not like you talked shit about you behind her back?
just a likely scenario
if she does this everytime you could go on full blast and ask her about it and that she should decide for herself (for example on a hot mug of coffee) wether you are whatever anyone said you are or no.
or you could just take the hint and drop it.
If you think I am insulting you with my post or bashing you: You do not get the point.
I am not here to insult or bash anyone. I offer up my free time to help. Take from my post what is useful to you.
If you are angry about my post or myself, then please stop and think how that happened. Usually that is the way the brain responds if a critical belief system is challenged (its called cognitive dissonance). If you have trouble with it please answer in the thread. I will come back to you.