My bf broke up with me about 5 months ago. We werent having problems except some jealousy and insecurity issues on my part but all that had just gotten a lot better. The reason he broke up with me is because his family and relatives wont allow us to be together (yea I know, stupid as f*ck) but thats how it is. If he would choose me his whole family would abandon him and never speak to him again. His parents, siblings, uncles, aunts, everyone. So I understand its not easy for him but still..
We have still been seeing each other after that just as much, still kept in touch every day, he invited me to go out with his friends, we even started having sex again after about 2 months.
The funny thing is when we were together I was sooo afraid of loosing him, and after we broke up I was able to appreciate being with him a lot more, and actually felt more secure the way things were, even though we were broken up.
But I do want him back I cant imagine him being with anyone else (he says hes not interested in a relationship anyway, and he never had one before, hes picky) we are so much alike, i never met someone so much like me. I always thought I would have to settle with someone who's a lot different because I didnt think another person like me existed. And by that I mean when it comes to values, look on life, lifestyle etc. We have the same opinions on all those things and go so well together.
I dont want anyone else, I seriously dont. Ive met so many guys in my life and I never liked ANYONE except him. He's the one, my perfect match. If I cant be with him I dont want to be with anyone else.
What can I do to get him back? I dont always tell him how im feeling, i mostly ignore it and just hang out and everything is great. He did say he enjoys spending time with him and he still wants to talk to me and stuff. And he wants to come visit my home country with me next summer and everything... its not like he wants me to get out of his life, or what do u think?
He's been saying stuff like he saw guys being walked all over by their gfs and I'm like wtf :/ I dont do that to him. I might have had trust issues at first (which u cant blame me for since he did stuff to make me not trust him) but that is all getting a lot better and he AGREES it has, still he wont go all the way and get back together with me.