Hi,
Rang my ex GF up by accident on Saturday. I typed in a number for a local take away but some how it got through to her (hard to believe I know).
I don't have her number saved or even know it off by heart and it was lunch time and I was sober. Felt like an idiot lol.
Anyway, I told her what has happened and we both laughed.
She then asked if it was ok to come pick something up sometime and can we have a talk then.
I said yes sure.
Anyway.......... I don't know what she wants to talk about. She finished with me 4 weeks ago out of the blue after 4 years of smooth relationship.
I've not contact her for over 3 weeks and that was to arrange for her to come pick up her things.
I still love her that's for sure and I'd listen to whatever she has to say.
IF...big IF, she wants us to get back together, I can't help thinking that she will just string me along until someone else comes along.
Anyone had this happened to them? How would you deal with it? Or what she might say to me?
Just hope she doesn't tell me she has found someone else or that she has been unfaithful while we were together and wants me to find out from her and not from others.
I'd rather not know anything about it if it was anything negative.
I've been positive about things over Christmas and New year and learned new skills, kept busy, exercise, keeping fit, meeting friends and family.
So now I really don't want any negativity if I can help it.