He broke up with me because I did not call HIM alot. He told me that he is use to women kissing his ass when he do nice things for them. So he gets extremely insecure when I don't ring his phone every minute. But he does not call me. Sometime when I do call, he avoids my calls. He always performed oral sex, never traditional sex. I think he is either gay or have a ED problem. I was really into this man, but he is one arrogant SOB. He is a sheriff sergeant and is extremely complicated.