So I met this girl where I work (at a gym), she happened to be subbing for another girl who works there. So technically we were co-workers. I could tell she liked me alot. So I got her number and starting texting her. I finally asked her on a date the next week. On the first date I instantly could tell I liked her alot. We went on 4 dates. I would text her things like "I really like being with you" and she would send back a smiley face. She really had me confused.
When I first started texting her she would respond back instantly and then she started showing less interest. On the fifth date we watch a movie at her house. We started making out and she tells me in two passing sentences that "I don't know if I'm still in love with my ex" and that she "didnt know if she was ready for another long term relationship". Then she asked me if I wanted to have sex and I basically said "if you want to", so we did. For like two days after that she seemed like she really wanted to keep doing it, but every time I tried to get together with her she had some excuse. I also know this girl isn't a slut, we are very truthful to each other and I trust her when she says she's only been with 2 guys. So obviously her sleeping with me had to mean something. About a week after we had sex I was really getting fed up with how confusing this girl was to me and she came to bring me dinner at work as a way of apologizing. We had a long talk about her ex. When I got off work we started making out and did it in her car. Since then I have not seen her. I told her I would give her a week to think about what she wanted.
(A little back story, this girl was in a 3 year relationship which ended a little over 4 months ago. She got together with some guy about a month after the breakup, though she did not have sex with him. The rebound guy only lasted a month or so and she broke up with him. She broke up with her long term boyfriend, because he wasn't keeping promises and was ignoring her. It seems to me like this girl really loved her ex. She still talks to him as well.)
So after one week she texted me and said she wants to be alone right now and that she doesn't want to be unfair to either of us. My friends tell me there are many other fish in the sea and I know its true, but I really liked this girl for who she was. I was extremely attracted to her personality more than anything. I sent her extremely beautiful texts about how much I liked her, texts that I really meant. I really want this girl to like me back, but I think she's afraid to start something. I was afraid she just liked me for how I looked, cause I'm good looking and have a nice body. She has established now that we are just friends and that maybe some time in the future we can "start over", because she says she is still getting over her ex. So should I wait around for this girl? The problem is that I reaalllllyyy like her alot. Any advice would be appreciated.