My ex girl-friend who im still legally married to came to my house to pick up our kid that i have custody of. She came with her currently boyfriend who shes madly in love with.she also lives with him and that why my daughter lives with me, and plus she has not job to support my daughter yet.(from her myspace) I'm not sure why he came besides to help. She made a comment that i look like i lost weight(which i did, 55lbs). In fact my weight had been a contributing(her current bf is thinner than me) factor in our breakup which she admitted to .Our breakup was bad but it has gotten better.The only nightnmare left is my daughter repeating her new bf name which i cant control. she then left in his car with our 3 year old. She knows that i still have feeling for her,inside which i admitted in the past She sent a text to my phone saying "you look good" after she left. Is this an arrogant shot at me like "you look good but look who im with" or was it genuine sort of being friendly.all opinions welcomed.