Originally Posted by
BlackRose
I think you are just over-worked and stressed out. Middle aged working men have a lot of pressures on them to do their very best. You have to worry about being replaced by someone younger so you have to do that much more to prove you are still worth keeping around. As for your libido, I'm not surprised to hear that it's suffering. The only think I can say is, on the weekend (or when ever you aren't working), try to set aside a few hours to relax. Take a bath with some music going and a glass of wine. Don't think about work. Think about nicer things. Relax yourself. Maybe rent a movie or something. Just try to get your mind off of work. You just need some "you" time. Focus on your happiness first and the libido will probably follow. The other option is, see a doctor and see if he can help you manage your stress and regain your libido.