first off i want to say hi, and this is my 1st time posting on this website after only reading here for years, and my problem is my sexual relationship.
This isnt my 1st sexual partner etc, Ive had the other longterm relationships 3-4 years, but this is an on going issue with all the girlfriends Ive had. And the issue is like any other guy I love sex ofcourse, without getting into alot of detail I tend to be very sexual and worship my womans body to make her feel good. Now heres the problem every GF I've had always tells me that it hurts and that sex becomes painful at certain points, So they become disinterested. My current GF has been with me for almost four years, and I pretty much fed up with her lack of sex but heres the reason why. When we started dating(before Sex) she would tell me that she was always was horny with her ex man, she wanted it all the time, everyday if she could. Now when she met me she would tell me that my "blank" is too big, and thats something every girl has told me. I know Im not overexxadratted big but I know im bigger then average. Now everytime we have sex I can go on for a long period of time and it makes me feel like shes not liking it because its always her giving up, just like my ex gf's, now like the rest of them its been already 3+ years and it still hurts.. how is that possible? I feel like the true problem is me because Ive always hear women complain about smaller men but im Just above average (not superman). Shouldnt a women be used to it by now? Because When i was single I had slept with alot of women and till this day they always call me for a booty call.
Sometimes I feel like my life is ment not to be in a relationship because alot of women I've had in the past used me for sex for a number of times, especially when i go to a party without my GF new ones who claim to hear about me jump all over me or someone who had physical contact with me wants another round.
BTW i know most women think alot of men brag but in this post Im being truthfully honest, I love my GF and I want to stay with her. I just dont understand why I always have to go through this? before she and the rest Ive dated describe their sexual desire comparable to a nympho and once theyre with me everything changes, I keep things interested in New in the bed room but its supposedly pain after something they should be used to by now