Though I would not have worded it the same way as Mr.Turtle did, there is nothing but truth there. I have had so many issues with the guys and gals in my life that have called themselves my friends, it is unreasonable. The thing I did was not to let it hurt too much for too long. You love your friends then it is going to hurt! If it didn't hurt then you wouldn't have cared in the first place but I learned that if I you let it go, they come around again and you start off where you left off before things went sour. My best friend, a girl I grew up with started a fight with me over some loser she used to date started his mouth running and told her I said god knows what. The funny thing is I hadn't talked to him in YEARS. We didn't talk for a year or more and in that time she quit doing drugs, met a guy, and we started talking and now I have a god son and a new guy to pick on as my brother. Strange the way it works but if it's honest, it WILL work. Don't let it bother you. It can be hard, but a stiff upper lip and focusing on your own life is a great way to cope, you better yourself instead of letting it drag you down. : ) Hope that is helpful.
“I was never really insane except upon occasions when my heart was touched.” ― Edgar Allan Poe
Wish for a pile of shit to turn into gold hard enough and guess what? It's still a heaping pile of shit.