Should I leave her now, or wait till she cheats on me

[newtothewest]

I have been with this girl from my work for a month and a half now, she is so nice and supportive to me (even though I am having a problem sometimes in bed) and keep saying that she loves me (We’ve known each other 3 months before we started dating), but I cannot trust here because of the following reasons:

1- She told me she had many FWBs whom she still seeing.
2- She told me she had already cheated on many of her x-boy friends
3- All of her friends are guys, and she keep making new guy friends and getting close to them (she got about 2 new close friends since we’ve started dating and she comes to me laughing and saying stuff like : he told me that I should not wear underwear while cleaning my bf’s appatment)
4- yesterday she left me and went with a guy she parley knows clubbing all night (she said he is the friend of her friend (X-FWB) she came to me this morning drugged (speed), she opened her email in front of me and I saw the following email conversation that took place yesterday with the guy she spent the night clubbing with:

She:
Hello, I found the site of the motel (the website of the motel metro in montreal), if you want we can take the room with the spa, I will chill in the spa while you sleep, here is the number: 514-XXX-XXXX

He replied:
Hi my beauty
Yes you stay in the bathroom and I am on the bed
Oups, I made a mistake
You sleep on my side
Oups, no we don’t sleep you will be too exited that you will not let me sleep

She told me this guy asked her if she wore a black bra while they were dancing, why she keeps telling me such things. I can hear you saying discuss it with her, but I am afraid if I do, all what she is going to do is stop telling me and hiding things better (she always say that she is a very good liar and she keeps lying on her mother- I am 28 she is 20 and lives with her parents-) please tell me what do you think.

[Tiay]

sooo many red flags here! I'd say steer clear altogether, unless you're ok with being another one of her toyboys.

[squirrley]

She's a player! Do you really want to be involved with someone who does those things?

Id leave her and you dont NEED an excuse to do it or wait to see IF she cheats on you! Buddy, get out NOW! She's 20 and she's still spreading her wings. She loves the attention she gets from guys and for her to splatter it in your face is NOT love. There is NO love from her in this relationship. Excpet the fact she loves she's has someone whose willing to put up with her crap.

LEAVE HER NOW DONT WAIT!

[miSSleepy]

yeah, steer clear. I don't think she's ready for the type of relationship you're after. She's being very selfish and disrespectful.

[Illusional]

i'm not going to even read your thread, but it's obvious by your title... why are you waiting for the end to come when you can end it yourself??

raverboy

[Tiay]

She's 20 and she's still spreading her wings.

or rather, legs.

man, I haven't used that one in ages.

[squirrley]

Does that mean Im getting old?

[Michael6084]

LEAVE. show her that you got some self-respect and be the one in charge, not her. if your instinct tells you to not trust her, you should probably not and just leave. besides, what'll you do when and if she cheats? talk to her about how you trusted her? with her history, she obviously does not give a shit.

[Illusional]

Does that mean Im getting old?

haha actually it just means that you're not keeping up with the times.

raverboy