It doesn't sound like "abuse" to me, but you already told her how you feel. She's in a very emotional place right now and is hoping you are going to change your mind because she probably feels at the moment she can't live without you. Keep doing what you are doing, don't respond to her if you have already reminded her many times this is what you wanted and she will soon get the message. Hopefully you won't miss her once she stops contacting you though.
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