Originally Posted by
emily25
hi guys
to cut a long story short, i have a really good friend that i ve known for 10 years and are like soul mates. we ve always had good chemistry etc. i ve always thought we get on really well. this weekend, he came and visit me and we ended up having sex. we were both completely sober. he made the move on me and constantly flirting. now i think the situation is a bit awkward... we still text each other like every other day.
is this a moment of fun or does it mean something more?
Why in GOD's name wouldn't you have a discussion with him about what it meant and where it's now going and had that conversation with him before you parted ways? You are your own worst enemy. Learn to look after yourself better, sweety. Ask him, but before you do figure out what it is you want first so that if he can't give you EXACTLY that, you won't settle for something less fulfilling to you. Settling will just steal your joy and sense of self worth.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion