Whew been a long time since i posted here but hii. I just want to get some advice on a simple problem. Is it my fault that i am not going to wait around for my ex? She says she doesnt want to get back together because shes scared she might hurt me again and that she wants to get all of that sort of thing out of her system now before we are together again? In my mind thats just all bullshit and shes trying to keep me on a leash. I told her i am done with that and that i have to follow whats in myself and she tried to make it seem as if it was my fault. I just need to hear someone say that i am right in not waiting around and that chances are nothing would ever come of our relationship.