Ive been with my girlfriend for 4 years now and we have been through alot, i still care for her and do love her and ive never contemplated leaving her or cheating on her until the last few months. I dont think i could cheat on her because she deserves more but since i started a new job there has been a girl who has been talking and flirting with me alot and wanting to go 'party' with me and is seemingly interested in me. Usually i would just disregard these advances and get on with my life but the past 2 months i have been unhappy with my girlfriend, we live together and i just feel like we are becoming more distant daily and argue alot more.
Im 22 and i feel like im having a mid life crisis, i want to live my life and go out and not worry about having a girlfriend because ive never experienced that, i fear that i will look back a few years down the track and think i missed my chance but in saying that i may look back and regret leaving my girlfriend when she has moved on, ideally id like to have a break then come back to her but i know thats just selfish.
Does anyone have any advice on how i could approach this?