hehe this did make me laugh
it's about having a connection deeper than just 'lets do it'. it about looking deeper to see if you can almost read each others minds. it's amazing how sensual it actually is when both parties participate. if one doesn;t then yea it is another staring competition and pretty much useless to the other person.
my advice is the next time this happens is start to look and try to read her mind or at least think about what you like about her, at least it's positive vibes rather than you freaking out
lol
Work like you don't need the money. Love like you've never been hurt. Dance like nobody's watching