I have been to different spiritualist mediums in the past, they always tell me about the person I will marry and what he looks like and his occupation etc. The description is usually the same and yet I don't tell them anything and they do not know each other so cannot confirm details.
What annoys me the most is the one person I do think possibly fits this description I feel like he messes me around. He comes and goes throughout the year and turns up when he feels like it or does not turn up when he promised. One medium said the guy does not know where he stands with me - I don't know how he can when he is flaky.
I just feel like a mug that they are fobbing me off with these lies that they say I need to be patient. I feel an idiot as many decent guys have walked away as they sense I am still hung up on this guy. I just find it wrong that they are encouraging me to pursue someone whose actions show me that they are using me as a back up plan. If I stay I could be wasting me time or if I walk away did I change my path. Anyone got any advice?