My girlfriend and I have been in a great relationship for 4 years. We barely fight, we both love playing video games and watch movies and we never run out of things to talk about. There have been a few times that we would have a conversation about not enough time in bed but for some reason and maybe because I'm a guy, I didn't listen and we still haven't had sex in quite a while. I senced something was really wrong about a week ago that she's been very distant so I tried getting close to her and bending over backwards to do anything for her but she pushed me away. Last night she hung out with one of her awesome friends from her childhood until 11:30pm and came home really sad. She said "We are not working." and I was shocked because this was something I never thought she would say. She keeps saying that I never try and that we always use the excuse of working too much and is never physically satisfied. I begged her to give me one more chance and this time I will get off my butt and do whatever it takes to save our relationship but she said she needs some space and doesn't know if we can physically do it. I feel like such a jerk and I am determined to never let this happen again but now I'm deathly scared that she won't give me another chance. I've talked to 2 of her best friends all day today and they are trying everything they can to help us out because they know that we will both be sad without each other.
Should I give her space for awhile? I don't know how long either. we both have another week off of work and both live together but if I have to, I will try and give her all the space she needs to figure things out. This really hurts