Hi guys
6 months ago, my partner of 5 years and mother of my child left me for another man and life. We were not married. I dated a 28 year old solicitor a month or so after and it was a nice casual thing with not too much pressure. So was attractive and very very tall in heels, almost the same height as me and I am 6ft 5. Physically I did not click with her but she was at the right stage of life and wanted the same things as me. We failed to see each other for a while due to hectic work and family lives at the time. One day she messaged me on Facebook and suggested that we go our own separate ways. So we did.
A week or so later, I met a 22 year old who has a child that goes to my son's nursery. I am nearly 31. We saw eachother for a couple of months but it became clear that we were at different stages of life and shared contrasting views on entertainment such as clubbing etc. I am very much ready to settle down but she wants to, quite rightly live her youth. Yesterday we split up and she was devastated, and doesn't want to keep in touch or let our boys play together. I can't stop thinking about her. She was so cute and affectionate. I just wish she was at the stage of the solicitor, who, wants to meet up with me again...
I am in such a mess, I can't think straight and feel torn. Please help!