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    Girlfriend. Advice?

    Long story... I'm so stupid...

    Let's see... Well, there's this girl, Brooke, that I fell in love with a couple of years ago. We are pretty good friends, or were, but not GREAT or anything. Well, I got my little brother, I was young..., to go up and tell her I loved her, elementary style... Well, that proved to be a big mistake.

    Anyway, she doesn't talk to me anymore, ignores me, and I think she likes someon else. We made eye contact once, and she smiled and looked away, but that was all. Is there anything I can do? I mean, she's my dreamgirl, forgetting about is outta the question.

    Thanks!

    ~Merkintosh

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    You should first introduce yourself so we know at least how old you are. Anyways, you made a mistake of telling your brother to do something you should have done. It wasn't very manly at all. Forget about telling her that you love her. Instead, go up to her and apologize. Give it some time and see whether she has any feelings for you. If she gives you good signs, ask her out, if not, move on.
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    You're in high school (I hope to God). Just move on.
    I'm drowning in assholes.

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    lol Debunkt!

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    Well, I'm 15... Yes, I'm in High School. I was thinking of apologing, but some friends say not to. Why? Because they don't see why... Hmmm... any thoughts?

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    Girls get scared when you tell them that you are in love with them, especially when you're NOT her b/f. Therefore, you need to undo what you did and take it slow for awhile before re-introducing yourself as a potential b/f.
    -to be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight; and never stop fighting.- e.e.cummings

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    Yeah what Asip said!
    If you can't handle the thorns, don't crave the rose!!

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    And: Never again send a boy to do a man's job.
    Speak less. Say more.

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    He's no man... he is just a boy.

    Move on, boy.

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    go and say what you want to say to her.

    best of luck

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    Thanks all for the advice!

    Yea, I feel really stupid, because when I did that, I was, like, 10. If I coulda redone it, I woulda. Too late, I guess. I guess I was just acting like a stupid little boy.

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    Forget about what you did when you were 10. Why would you apologize? If I were her I'd be flattered. Just carry on as if it never happened. You were a kid - no one expects anything different from a kid. Now that you are a little older, just handle things on your own.

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    LOL, 10????

    dude, dont worry about it, at 10, no matter what you do people will call you an angel
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    just be like..."yea i heard my brother talked to you...and i'm sorry...hes a bit wierd. and says random stuff."

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    Thanks shh... Thanks everybody! I'll think about it.. Anything else?

    ~Merkintosh

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