Okay, so here I begin with my personal story. I met a guy about 9 months ago, everything was great or so I thought!!! Until everything changed one day, he was flirting with another girl on Myspace. Okay so he admitted to it, I let it slide, because I caught so many feelings for him, and I fell in love. I bent over backwards for him. He was my world, I thought about him constantly, dreamed about him, needed him, just wanted him. He of course said that he loved me, and was in it because he really cared, and we talked about the future, about having babies, getting married, living together, I mean everything. Then things started happening, I noticed that he still had his ex gf as a friend on Facebook, mind you they were in a 4 yr relationship, and when he made the account, they weren't even together, but he added her, and all of these girls from his past, were hitting him up, and calling him love, I mean he would reply to them. I mean I thought I was his girlfriend , I thought I was the one he loved....he said it all the time. We would get into arguments , non stop and I would cry all the time while still loving him, because I felt something for him that I have never felt for any other man. It gets worse, come to find out, he lied about lot of things, like his job position, place of birth, about his mom getting into a car wreck(I mean who would actually say there mom got into a serious car accident, just to say it). He lied a lot....it makes me want to cry just thinking about. Then the night came, where I called him and let it all out, all of my fustration, I was crying so much, I was so hurt, and I blew up his spot. Instead of being a real man, he hung up the phone on me, never called me nor text me, nor saw me again. He left me dry with me being in love with him. With no answers. So time passed and like two months...I was on AIM, and I saw he was on, so I wanted to make him hurt a bit...and said "GOING OUT WITH MY BOO" , which mind you I don't have a man and I am still not over him, so he responds and says to me on an instant message " HAVE A GREAT LIFE WITH YOUR BOO", I text him and he says I am dead to him, that I never loved him, that he is hurt. WTF???? Like seriously after all he did, and leave me dry like that, he only responds because he thought I had a man, it doesn't make sense. I am so hurt, I still cry and breakdown, I don't even look at any other man like that, I am not over him, I still love him. What am I to do??? He is blaming everything on me now. He doesn't call me or anything....omg, what did I do to deserve this. Why me....I try talking to my family and friends...but I need other input....I am hurting, please give me advice, please. I am so sick because of the break up. Oh yeah, I forgot to add, when we were dating I lived in hour away from him by car, I moved to the same city, where he lives right now, and he broke up with me right before I moved. It doesn't make sense.....gosh ='(.